We asked readers of BuzzFeed Brasil how it was their first time with someone of the same sex. Here are the best stories:

Victor Nascimento

  1. The prostitute.

“I was 20 years old, my boyfriend suggested a threesome and I took it as a great adventure. Only that third person would be a prostitute. At the time of the act I went crazy as she kissed me on the mouth, touched me and was loving to me. My boyfriend practically just watched, almost didn’t participate, because she is a prostitute, she started trying to please me and was surprised when I started wanting her pleasure in oral sex.
I spent weeks thinking about her and decided to hire her again, alone. That’s when I found out that I enjoyed sex with girls. I never had a serious relationship with a woman for lack of opportunity, just casual encounters. “- Anonymous, 31, bisexual

  1. The car ride.

“I was still ‘straight’ and used Tinder secretly to match the guys. He was doing Law at PUC, we were talking through the app, until he said he was going to drive by my house to meet us in person and walk around. .
He was already quite fun to chat online and, luckily, personally he was too. We talked, we went to a fast food, all very cool, until in the car I realize that he was going to a different path than my home. I didn’t object, because I wanted to. We arrived in a more deserted place, everything a little dark, he looked at me with an inviting smile and seemed to find it funny how I was. And how was I? Nervous as fuck !!
I knew what he intended there, I knew what was about to happen, but I didn’t know what to do, or how to do it, or whether it was right to do it. Today is different, but at the time I still had a hard time accepting my sexuality. He was patient, gave me time to take some kind of initiative. But seeing that it wouldn’t happen, he just slowly approached me and kissed me. Second gay kiss of my life. We kissed, but my nervousness didn’t pass. We were undressing, we were naked in the car, a mix of sensations going on inside me.
Maaassssss there was no consensus there between head and heart. I wanted a lot, but my nervousness didn’t go away at all and I couldn’t stay hard for even a second. We tried, we kept catching up, and I think I only made my nervousness worse because the goal of ‘getting hard’ started hammering frantically in my head. In the end, nothing went right.
I felt like shit, but he understood the situation, laughed and calmed me down. I foolishly asked him to suck it because it was something I was full of desire (although my dick suggested it wasn’t). He thought it was funny and I did what must be the worst blowjob ever. He took me home and we went out at other times, we had decent sex on another occasion and became friends later. “- Marcelo, 22, homosexual

  1. The crush’s sister.

“I was really into her brother before I met her. When I found out that he had a sister, I thought: I’m going to become friends with her and maybe she helps me stay with him. So far so good, I added her and we started she was a loving person and I, very naive, didn’t know she was a lesbian. Until one day she told me she was in love with me and I was very surprised. liking her too. Then one day she invited me to go to a party with her and, in the heat of the moment, we went to the bathroom and had sex right there. It was very tasty and intense. ” – Thaís, 22, straight

  1. The meeting at the funeral.

“It was in 2012, with a friend of my friends. We met at the funeral of the mother of our mutual friend. One day I went to pose for pictures at her house and we stayed. Then we had sex. I was 18 at the time and I was dating a boy “Sex was delicious, much better than I imagined. It was only tragic because I didn’t know what to do. She gave me oral sex and I was unsure whether I would do it too or not. Then I went down there, right? And she looked at me with a frightened face like ‘are you sure’? I said I didn’t know, kkk. It was weird, but it was nice. ” – Joyce, 25, bisexual

  1. Doing the “understood”.

“The two were a little changed because of the drink and, although we were friends, we were once in a while. At the time it was happening naturally, only when we were in fact neither knew how to suck and what to do We had never had a sexual relationship with a man either, but we did THE UNDERSTANDING and kept doing weird things thinking it was all right. In the end we tried a position that made me hit my head on the floor and end it with a half cry, half a laugh crisis. ” – Anonymous, 18 years old, bisexual

  1. The bites.

“Even though I have been dating a boy for almost ten years, it was the first time I went to a motel and I had to pretend to be a custom. First because the girl was older and didn’t know it was my first time with a person of the same I don’t know exactly what to expect, I just know that I was very horny in spite of all the adverse circumstances. I was twelve years old unless she and she were my student. We approached in class and talked a lot on WhatsApp, mainly about politics. Until talk goes, talk comes, I found myself really wanting her.
One day we went out for a beer after class and exchanged messages. As we were more there than here, we ended up saying everything and saw that there was reciprocity. We made an appointment and went to the motel. It was very curious because she said that she had had other experiences, but unbelievably bit my clitoris a few times (it hurt a lot !!!). And I was surprised because I made her come four times. I, until then straight, realized that having oral sex on a woman was liberating and delicious, so much so that I reached orgasm myself for doing it to her and did not reach it when she did it to me, due to the bites, laughs. “- Anonymous , 26 years old, bi / pansexual

  1. Maybe I am straight.

“We planned to go out, but her parents decided to spend the night and, at the same time, we thought it was better to stay home and watch a movie. I had already had sex with men, but I was always attracted to women. We started kissing , the weather heats up, she takes off my shirt, my pants, I take off her and so far so good. At one point she stood over me rubbing my pelvis on mine, almost as if she was penetrating me. panties and she too. She moaned and squeezed my breasts and suddenly she came, or at least I think she did, and she stopped doing anything, she lay on my side with a satisfied face and I pretended I was satisfied too. thinking that I should be straight, because if that was sex with another woman, then it was really bad. Luckily I gave myself a few more chances and today I am a happy lesbian, open and understanding of her own body, she knows what she wants and enjoys truth.” – Gah, 24, lesbian

  1. With parents at home.

“I was always interested in women, but this boy just turned my world upside down. I was 16 and it happened at my house WHILE MY PARENTS WERE IN THE ROOM NEXT. Actually, I was pretty safe, but he was a virgin and stayed very scared, good thing that everything went wonderfully and with a lot of fire, lol The unexpected thing is that he laughed at my facial expression when I arrived at the time H. I learned that trusting and talking to your partner is always good. to relax my little sweetheart who was all stuck and shy. ” – Anonymous, 17, I’m not sure about sexuality

  1. The ladder.

“My first time was at the age of 18 and under very adverse circumstances. I was extremely anxious until I decided to go out with a guy from Tinder who seemed to be the ideal to control these ‘neuras’. So I went to his house and it ended up happening at building stairs (!) because there were people in his house. It wasn’t very comfortable. I ended up regretting it later, because it gave me a reality check when I saw what I was doing with anyone and not with someone I really wanted and trusted. It wasn’t enough to have been on the stairs, I still came in his mouth at the time of the oral, without even realizing it, hahaha. ” – Anonymous, 22 years old, homosexual

  1. The mother’s cream.

“I got home dying of boredom after some annoying classes about ENEM and I was crazy to have sex. I used Grindr, but just snooping, because I didn’t have the courage to go out with anyone. a guy who lived 700 meters from my house. I was alone at home every day from 6 pm to 8 pm, which was the time my dad left for church. So I told him to come at that time. I gave him a false name and all the more because he was terrified of being discovered.
He arrived and we started to kiss. I was getting more and more breathless because I was very nervous, but I decided to continue the same way. I got down on my knees, did an oral which today I imagine must have been horrible and, about five minutes later, he told me to get something to lubricate because he wanted to eat me. I had nothing and ended up getting an Avon cream from my mom that had a very strong smell. He passed by, put on the condom and started. But I was paranoid asking him if I was bleeding and checking my cell phone for fear of my parents calling me.
I ended up making a helping hand so as not to leave him with nothing and after he left I noticed that my sheet was completely dirty, because I didn’t make the cup and didn’t even know at the time what I needed to do. There was also the smell of the cream and his sperm, so I wiped it off running and had my ass burning all day, hahah. I am still traumatized by the smell of the cream he used. I hate it when my mom gets him to massage my dad. “- Anonymous, 19 years old, homosexual

  1. Pretending to orgasm.

“It was funny because, as I was always very naughty, malicious, full of attitudes, she thought I already had some experience and I didn’t have it! So I got brave and I asked her to come and study with me that afternoon. and she was dating an ex-boyfriend of mine from school (yes, I had experience with men before).
Anyway things started to happen between us, we went to my bed, we took off our clothes, hand in that, that hand … But she started making faces and mouths … Well, I stopped everything. I didn’t need to be mega-experienced to understand that it wasn’t flowing and she was starting to pretend. I sat down with her and we talked. Then she confessed that she was pretending. She said: ‘I never came and when I’m with So-and-so, I pretend to finish it soon, because I never like it myself’.
So we decided to try it again, calmly, with time, with patience. We discovered the taste of orgasm and sex with women. I entered the Valley and never came back. She went back to the closet, got married, has a son. Two years ago we met at a mall and she had the courage to say that she still masturbates thinking about us … 🙈 I think the experience was worth it, right? “- Carol, 32 years old, lesbian

  1. The application for dating.

“I was 20 years old. We had dinner in a Japanese, she asked me to date and we went to the motel. The choice of the motel was hers, because she said it was cheap, had a bathtub and good stories from there, and told me that she had already done it a gangbang with an ex and a bunch of people there. And I was like, ‘OH MY GOD SHE WILL REALIZE THAT I AM A VIRJI AND I SAID I WASN’T THAT.’ So I started to think I had no motor coordination for this, at the same time that I tried to remember all the oral sex tutorials in the world, scared to death that she didn’t like it and left me for it.
So we went to the bathtub and one hour I got up and ran and wet everything, kkk. My clothes that were on the floor were soaked with water from the bathtub that fell on the floor, I was very shy and I had to stay with her in the room because it was already dawn and I lived in another city and even more with a towel! I couldn’t even look at her with embarrassment. And she started to cry thinking it was because I didn’t find her attractive. Then I was desperate, because I liked her a lot and I didn’t want to let her down. I told her that I got nervous in the bathtub. She realized that I was shy and started to be cute with me, and we started to talk good, already getting off to have sex.
Then, when it was a few hours later, we started exchanging kisses, and hand over, hand over, and finally it ROLLED. I was happy and feeling that I won a medal for saying that my oral was delicious. Nowadays we date and laugh a lot when we remember this story. I just went to tell you that it was my first time five months later. “- Anonymous, 23 years old, bisexual





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